I'm a unusual sort of girl, not looking to have a family but I do hope to find a cool person (male OR female)for companionship and all the great stuff that goes with a solid relationship. I like artsy movies (stupid ones too), harder music like industrial, punk, and metal. I can be very low key a lot of the time and quite happy relaxing at home, going out for exotic food, but I do enjoy living it up and hitting some bars now and then. I like venturing into the city for comedy, the Museum of Natural History, the design collection at moma... but I firmly believe there is life in NJ too!
I have a good career that took work but I'm absolutely not a workaholic - my ideal partner will have an interesting career that keeps them intellectually happy and financially secure (I don't need bling bling but I must insist on stability) but is not a slave to their job. I'd like to find someone reasonably educated and with an ongoing curiosity about the world around them... it would be very nice if you get excited along with me when good stuff is on the History Channel, TLC etc. ;)