Quiet and reserved guy here. People can get the impression that I'm a snob, but truly, I'm just shy and modest. I have done an increadible amount of changing and growing these past few years and am finally ready to start searching for someone special to share my life with. Some of my goals include getting into real estate and becoming more active (I've already lost 35 pounds this summer, and am almost at my ideal weight!!!).

What I am looking for is someone who has some goals and aspirations of their own. I like guys that are a bit older then I am, and are outgoing and confident with themselves. I am not interested in men who are in the closet at all, as this hasn't worked for me in the past, and I hate being introduced as your "buddy". Men who are thicker (not overweight!) and take care of themselves is what I am attracted to.

As for hobbies, I enjoy walks, shopping, dining out, exploring different areas of the city, urban development and eating and cooking foods from different cultures.

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