I am the custodial parent of two daughters 5 and 4 years old that I love dearly. This makes my attention to detail a little more astute than I was say 6 years ago. My piano it is my solace. I probably play it whenever I get the chance as for my goals well i just want to be happy in whatever I'm doing. I'm a bit of a romantic and I like to treat women well. I like to do most anything really. A funny thing about me is that I live at the beach but I'm not an excellent swimmer. I don't mind walks on the sand though and If I had to save someones life i probably could manage. My musical taste varies depending on my mood. I am a musician so I get involved in all kinds of music. It can go to hard or soft. I like things with a hard edge more when I'm by myself. When I'm with somebody else its usually rhythm and bluesy. I'm looking for someone who I could laugh with, be myself around, and feel comfortable with and trust.

You really can't say what you would do on a first date because it all depends on the person you are dating. I would probably get to know what she likes on here and take it from there. The more spontaneous the better. The best plans are never laid out.