| | You know what guys? This is exactly what I'm looking for...I want the feeling when you walk up behind me and wrap your arms around me of total contentment. That safe, loved, and make me feel totally special feeling. I like doing different things and learning new things and have never shied away from a challenge of any sort. I am totally independent and self sufficient. If something breaks, I can fix it. If someone needs me for something (friends & family) I'm there. My biggest challenge has been raising my kids. Now its my turn to enjoy. You see I don't need anyone for anything but what I want is someone who isn't self centered and would try and hopefully enjoy anything that I like to do without complaining or only doing it because they think they have to. I want a guy who knows and understands the unconditional love a parent has and the deep roots a great family has to offer. I don't want to be criticized or taken for granted. If this sounds like a fairy tale, then so be it. But I'm holding out for it all and won't settle for anything less. I get the road isn't always smooth but if two people are willing to work at it - the bumps in the road will iron themselves out. And in return - you will be treated the SAME.
I don't want to be smothered or not trusted or questioned if I'm spending any time with my friends - I don't do jealous and I will never check up on you I'm told I'm a lot of fun. I love to laugh and have a good time. I'm a social drinker and not interested in dating someone who is a drunk plain and simple. Yes, at some point in time we have all had a few too many, but not every time we go out somewhere. I love to dance and socialize and like my old profile said will try anything once, twice if I liked it. lol I'm a sucker for romance and can admit it. I like to be spoiled and wined and dined. Although independent I still like to be treated like a lady. My favorite attire is blue jeans but I have no problem putting on the little black dress and hot high heels. :) I want someone to share things with and be my best friend ...but I also need my own space too sometimes as you will
Is there anyone out there that can actually do any of these things? Or do you just think you do and then you change and become a**holes. Well that pretty much sums it up ... feel free to drop me a line and chat
I will tell you what I look like because I wont post a picture on here. I'm 5'6" / slim / long dark hair / blue eyes - Don't want to blow my own horn but apparently I'm not a wall flower ... go figure - anyways, find out for yourself - This is it ... I'm pretty straight forward as you should have been able to tell by now but never rude unless of course I'm pushed in that direction. I don't like confrontation but I figure if you can dish it out, better be able to handle taking it back! lol Oh and by the way for some reason when I filled out profile the year wont change - so I'm not 40 (but that 1969 year was cute) and I'm definitely not 50! I guess you will have to figure I'm somewhere in betweeen ... lol |