Well Christmas is over and New Years is just around the corner Santa didn't put the girl of my dreams under the tree so i guess i need to update this. :-)

Who am i? Good question. First and foremost i am Dad. Not a weekend dad, not an every other weekend dad. I lost my wife to cancer so i am full time father to a beautiful 5 year old girl. I really enjoy being a dad and like kids. So my future partner must feel the same way. I am very close with my family and have great friends in fact i have a darn good life. However it would be nice to find someone special again. I do think relationships take time. I think its best to start out as friends and see if it turns into some thing more. I think communication, honesty, trust are a must for any successful relationship.

For fun i enjoy a variety of things and wouldn't mind perhaps being exposed to something new? I like to swim, have family and friends over and BBQ, i like movies either going or netflix, i like to read, i have taken my little girl on a couple of cruises and we both had a good time. I am an avid pool player, i am not much of a drinker, don't smoke, and no drugs.

I think in a healthy relationship you need balance. You don't need to be joined at the hip and be carbon copies of each other. I think a guys night out and a girls night out is very healthy. I have no time for games and jealousy. Its equally important to spend quality time together. I date night so to speak to keep the fires burning. I also don't do well with flaky people. I am someone who will call when he says and shows up on time. I expect the same out of my partner. I think its shows simple respect. I am not here to try and date half the Internet, i don't play games and hope you feel the same way.

Wow i sound kind of boring and straight laced!! Well i think i have a fun sense of humor and normally can crack a joke at the right time. I think life can be far to short, you never know what tomorrow will bring, i want to enjoy mine. So if any of this interest you say hello. :-)

I think its best to keep things simple. Any place where we can chat freely is a good option. Its also nice to have the option to walk around. I am easy, what would you like to do?