Tick tock... I don't know how much longer I can take this site. I'll admit, my time on this site has been discouraging, but then maybe I'm not using the right bait haha! (bad joke, I know!) Actually, I've decided you just have to keep throwing the bad one's back. A picture, a comment, what truly draws you to that other person through an impersonable communication? You can assume the personality, but never truly know the person, as I'm finding.

I may add a thought a day after my experience on here. Here are some random questions... if you make me a favorite, but don't ever message me, does that make you stalker?? why are you tracking me, but not communicating? Or even yet, can someone explain the purpose of making someone a favorite? Also, if you have references to prove that you are the person you say or think you are, that would be helpful and save me time!

If you are doing the numbers game and just seeing how many women you can email and who will actually respond, I'm not your girl. I'm not demanding, but I appreciate a response in an appropriate timeframe or aknowledgement that you are thinking of me and not 20 other girls you are trying to contact.

I'm not bitter and I'm not psychotic. I've been and will continue to be happy being single and able to do things on my own. I don't "need" to be a in relationship, but having someone to share it all with would be a bonus.

So in my feable attempt here's a little about me, I'm a low maintainance, sarcastic, laid back, fun, strong willed, open minded girl. At this point, I may be brutally honest too. I'm looking for a laid back guy with a sense of humor (must love to laugh and have fun) and a strong sense of his own self worth (no needy men please). In my spare time, I go to the gym, I work on my house (yard, cleaning, fun stuff!) and spend time with friends and family! I LOVE to travel and have friends all over! I'm a beer, jeans and T shirt girl (I do clean up well though when needed)! I'd really like to find that person that I can talk to about anything and enjoy life for all it has to offer! In the words of Sugarland "I ain't settlin'".

Trust and honesty are everything. I'm not into games and I hate drama and expect that if you message me, you are not either. Feel free to ask me anything, if you don't ask, you'll never know! And, if you start communicating with me and decide you've had enough, have the "courtesy" to wish me well.

I wish you all the best in this search. I know I keep hoping for that right connection. I'd love to hear from you, that one message could be the right message!

Happy searching!

Whatever, I'm easy going. I like to hang out, non pressuring time to get to know one another. Something fun, like putt putt or a new experience for both of us to remember (no pressure!)