I usually don't say to much about myself, and as such end up not talking to anyone on here. Guess that could stem from the fact that perhaps most women have a deluge of messages on here, or that as a society it is usually the men that pursue the women.

No looking to pursue, but on the other hand if a woman were to come into my life that was the one .. I would hope that I knew enough to hold onto her.

So a bit about me, because really if you know nothing about me .. why would you want to talk. Well other then boredom and there are so many others that have full profiles then why pick me?

I love my children .. suppose that is first and foremost. Though they are getting older and in fact are at a stage where dear old dad needs to think about my own needs again.

I'm a simple person, needs wise anyway though that being said I am far from simple. I enjoy learning, reading and the holding of interesting and sometimes useless facts ... though I must say what is useless to one person, might lead to an amazing conversation with someone else. Never really at a loss for words and can pretty much follow if not add to any conversation.

Which leads me into what I'm looking for in someone. Conversation, friendship, trust caring compassion. All qualities I possess, in differing amounts given the day, time or cycle of the moon :). I want someone that I can be just comfortable with .. where the trust is there. Where a friendship has blossomed into SO much more.

Ultimately I could drone on about me endlessly, and when you talk to me, your opinion of me could be totally different then the one I have of myself. So maybe its best if you form your own opinion from the start. Promise I can hold my own.

Good luck on here, and in life in general to all

I spend the most time just profile hopping from one to the next. No idea why really, maybe its like some kind of people watching. Or looking at how so many people can be looking for pretty much the same thing. :)

Love for me comes above all things, and when it is there .. when it is real it is SO much more then just a simple emotion. That's what I'm looking for .. that and an amazing kiss.

Looking to make a deep emotional connection, before I ever make a physical one. Because I have found thru trial and error that once you become physical .. the emotional connection is SO much harder to develop if in fact it ever does.