im a forty something regular joe who use to drum in rock bands and outgrew it in favor of family. i like to play with my kiddos,ride bikes(motorized and pedal), fish, camp, home improvement, go to movies, cuddle.... hee hee. id like to find the right girl to share my home with and have a warm,affectionate,and honest relationship. ive been told im witty, warm, giving,cute, and reasonably inteligent-though i wonder! i like lots of music- mainly rock.(used to be a headbanger)but the older i get- the broader my tastes get. i like christian rock, classic rock, some country(female ballads mostly!) pretty much any thing except rap and hip-hop and opera! lol!

first date... hmm... guess it doesnt really matter as long as there is good conversation(and lighting! hahahahaha)j/k! nice scenery helps i suppose.. not a place where its hard 2 hear eachother. coffee would be good, and walking is nice