Looking for a lady with eyes wide open.
Self made person, independent, separated farther of 2 active young boys and independent daughter in university, married twice, now separated with live in Care giver that cares for the boys. Life has been very good, with a load of opportunities for the future, seeking educated female with similar responsibilities. I am passionate about "real" music and visual design. Born in Toronto. Educated locally in Technology systems, post grad - school of hard knocks.

Heroes - my Dad, Winston Churchill ,John Lennon , all members of the Canadian Arm Forces and medical staff that are in harms way.

Motto - "everything in moderation, including moderation" R. Davies

Activities I like – I really like to have people over for a backyard party with lots of children and family, I like to cook on real charcoal. I like to go camping, I like to dive; I am a NAUI certified sports diver I like to snorkel, sometime more than diving if on shallow reefs. I like to sing in unison 2, 3 or 4 part harmonies. I like to drive in the country to special destinations. I like to play guitar solo or with other musicians. My major study in Collage was Acoustics and Audio recording, I am experienced in digital and Analogue multi track recording and mixing, Music production is a hobby if time permits, I like to play Latin percussion instruments. I like to renovate my home. I like the garden, yes the garden, I am not a good designer/landscaper but a good maintainer, I find it therapeutic to prune damaged or dieing foliage in the warm sun. I like to sail, any kind of sailboat not so much motor boats. I like a good thunder storm. I like to play Racquetball, Soccer and Hockey with my boys and look forward to the day when they can beat me every time. I like a good long hot sauna. I like to go for bicycle rides. I like to lie on a tropical beach and get too much sun, I like to walk the endless beach barefoot, I like to walk a rocky beach and explore for shells and things that crawl. I like to do copper foil stain glass, I have made some window panel for my home. I would like to try hearth cooking in my living room on special occasions with a special person and family. I like to go out to a good movie. I like foreign films, (UK, Australian exceptional foreign language films with subtitles)

Tastes in music - Beatles, latin jazz, Soca/Calypso, Soul, R&B, British 80,s Rock, JS BACH & other Classic, Male Choral, I cannot listen to Rap or Hip Hop


What do I like in a woman
I like a woman that is my equal; I like a woman that that I can learn from and grow, if presented with a choice of a lesser or superior woman I would choose a superior woman and try to keep up. I like a woman that explores and continually updates her likes and dislikes. I like a woman that knows herself and knows her needs and wants and can separate them. I like a woman that can swap roles, sometimes take the lead, and sometimes relax. I like a woman that doesn’t shy away from public displays of affection giving or receiving. I like a woman that likes kissing and makes every kiss count. I like a woman that likes to walk arm in arm, holding hands. I like a woman that likes to spoon. I like a woman whoes priorities put love making right up there with breathing. I like a woman that is fearless and not afraid to tell me painful truths. I want and need a woman who’s every word I can believe.


Turnoffs – Dishonesty, deceit, bad music.

Motivations – Suppress ignorance, be accepting, and share knowledge and the benefits of experience, enlighten.

Favourite Colour - Green.


Means of transport – Strong legs + bicycle, Green Jeep Cherokee,

If you are a self reliant, independent, eyes wide open woman looking for a caring,sensitive, strong and emotionally sturdy well travelled man for a long term relationship - I'm your man.

You dance, I'll play the conga's.