things about me. thats an interesting question. i have so much to list with so little space. here it is short and sweet. im about 6 foot 3 245 pounds but not fat. i put down that i have blond hair. i do but i shave my head for some funny reason. i love to joke and make people laugh but at the same time i am a very romantic person. unlike most i do believe that romance does not need to involve sex all the time.just two people with a personal and sentual connection. but if it does there is a major diference between sex and making love. like i said... most dont understand that. i am a man that likes to work hard and play hard. i work for the illinois tollway as a heavy equipment operator. no i dont work in the booths lol. as far as my second gig i am a paid on call firefighter. i love what i do. especially the firefighting. i dont do it for who i lose but for who i save because i belive that success is not really built on money and material things but built on how many lives are changed for the better cause you were put on this earth, and for that im a very happy man and already very rich and successful. i am a avid body builder and a harley rider.those two things ive been doing for years. im a cristian man that goes to church. i owe it all to him for who i am today. hes gotten me through alot. what i think makes me a unique is the fact i see the bad that happens in this world but it does not effect me like it does everyone else. i see the positive in everything.its a gift that hasnt come easy. on top of that no matter how bad your day is i will try with every part of my being to help you through it and cheer you up. im a good listener. and im good at making you laugh at my own expence lol. i love music. ive been drumming for about 20 years and singing for about 11. i listen to all types and i love kareoke. i was in a band once. we got pretty big in rockford at one point. i quit that to go on to better things though. no regrets at all. my goals in life are to get a house in the spring or summer of 2010 and work on creating a more successful future. so far its been going great. ive already accomplished so much and have a lot more to do. i can be very driven towards something i want. at this time im not looking for a long term thing or even something with strong commitments because i want to be in a better place in life ( i.e. my house )before i bring someone in to settle down with. im sure that is abmeral. i still would love to go out on a date and see were it goes or even get a drink and just hang out. ill leave that up in the air. if you are interested or curious write me and say hi.

well that all depends. i can be very old school with dinner and a movie or very surprising. such as a chicago stroll down navy pier. i will say this. if you are not afraid of motorcycles and its a beautiful summer night. a crews on my harley would be nice maybe to dinner to get to know eachother or a nightclub to dance the night away. you can drink. i wont if im riding. im still a blast sober though. just saying... all around the sky is the limit and the limit is set by you.