I'm a very laid-back and easy to get along with kind of guy. I'm always up for a good laugh and a good conversation. I stay drama free, and stay away from anything that may cause it. I'm a man who is strong minded, and strong at heart. When it comes to treating a woman, I have that old school chivalry that everyone says is dead and gone, but I'm still that guy that opens doors and pampers and I'm not afraid to do anything that keeps the lady that I'm with smiling and happy. I love to cook, I can cook anything from Italian to southern food, so I pretty much stay in the kitchen, I always enjoy a good workout especially on the basketball court. When it comes to music, i have an older soul so to speak, so Old School R & B and R & B is what i prefer and the occasional Hip-Hop, Jazz and Blues.
I am in the military but please dont let that scare you away, you'd be suprised to know that are some good military men out there. I have a son who is 9 and he is a huge part of my life, hes a lil me, so leading by example is very important to me as a father.

I know we all hope to find that person we always dream about, most of us never will, but its important for us to realize that we have to put forth the effort to fit that criteria for someone and most of all be real with that effort. I'm a man who shows more action than word, which is how it should be. We can all talk about how we can do this or do that or how we would take care of someone, but its the action that counts the most, it is hard to show action on a website, but these are things that will be proven thru time. Lastly, dating outside my race is nothing new to me, so i prefer to date outside my race.

For right now i would just like to keep it simple and take the time to get to know someone. The classic go out to a nice dinner and get to know each other, or just sit around and spark an intelligent conversation and enjoy one anothers company.