Before you get to read about me here are the top 10 songs I've chosen especially for POF. If you have any suggestions send them along. Not necessarily in any order...

1. Beginnings: Chicago This is where it all starts……
2. Foolish Heart: Journey How many of us have been down that road???
3. Beautiful Second Hand Man: An obvious choice... but do you know the artist?
4. Make it with you: Bread….self explanatory
5. Beautiful: Gordon Lightfoot – with a glass of wine, a fireplace, and you…it can only be beautiful
6. Time to Say Goodbye Sara Brightman/Andrea Boccelli This song does not mean what you think it does….
7. People Are Strange The Doors - yes there are some strange people here on POF
8. On The Internet Sean Morey see below....again…self explanatory...
9. The Way We Were: Barbara Streisand - no doubt referring to people's pictures here on POF
10.??? You fill in the blanks ...............

Give a man a match and he’ll be warm for a minute, but set him on fire and he’ll be warm for the rest of his life.

Now that you are laughing.... ...let's move on to me.

I enjoy good conversation. Can you embrace thoughts and ideas that capture your imagination and lead to new directions? I can talk for hours with the right woman. And along the way I hope to discover a woman of substance who can make my heart stop (not literally, thank you!) and take my breath away. I’m not looking for stunning exterior beauty, merely someone who is attractive to me. Are you a woman who believes friendship is a corner stone of forming a solid loving relationship and can understand and believe that a deeper connection is a necessary pre-requisite to moving a relationship forward? Building a relationship based on trust and loyalty is a good start. And we need to have excitement and intrigue...... keeping the element of surprise alive is a magical ingredient.......above all having fun together, enjoying each other's company in a variety of activities; this is where it all comes together. I stay physically active and working out regularly is part of my lifestyle. I am looking to meet someone who may become a good friend and down the road someone more special. I'm young at heart both in mind and spirit. I'm very open to a variety of activities and enjoy live theater, movies, music, singing, golfing, roller blading, dancing and can adapt to any activity that I can do and I am willing to try new things. Strong relationships include some common interests and are much more fun when you are doing things together that you both like. If you enjoy the water then we already have something in common. Being near the water just to enjoy the view and feel the air and to sometimes take in a quiet moment to reflect. Someday I would like to retire near the ocean where snow is but a distant memory. I am content in life and with myself. I work but know how to shut it off, I'm independent, loyal, kind, patient, responsible and dependable and I also have a spontaneous side that requires expression. I live a pretty full yet simple life and am content in a way that is right for me at this time. I want to share my time and create new experiences with a great woman; someone that I feel very comfortable with and where we really connect with each other. Someone who I like, learn to appreciate and who feels the same in return and who wants to stay connected. I am looking for an opportunity to share similar interests and discover new ones and explore different levels of chemistry and connection in getting to know one another. I appreciate like mindedness and I need to feel comfortable with you. Not only will I like you from the outside, I will also like who you are on the inside. Needless to say I expect and will give in return my trust and fidelity if we form a relationship.

PS: Just a few practical matters.....

If you are a smoker, do drugs or abuse alcohol you are not for me.
Geography is a factor. It's difficult if you are far away and I want to see you spontaneously so I would prefer we are closer rather than far apart. No hard rules here because for the right person everything can be worked out but up to 45 min from Mississauga works. Please be single and upfront with who you are. Separated is complicated unless it's been a long time for you. I have 2 cats for those who need to know.



OK - now for something different.....Everyone here on POF should take this in a lighthearted vein and hopefully get a good laugh...

Sung to the tune of "Under The Boardwalk", sort of...

Credit goes to Sean Morey for the lyrics, alas I was too late to pen them first.

Oh I will never forget the place where we first met...
You were the prettiest girl in the room, at least that's what you said.
On the internet
You things you typed were oh so swell...
And I fell in love with you
Even though you couldn't spell

On the internet

2000 miles apart

On the internet

I downloaded your heart

On the internet

We were filled with desire

On the internet

My mouse was on fire

On the internet, internet

Well we decided that we should meet in person, for goodness sake
Because we knew that the photos that we had sent were fakes
Oh, when you first laid eyes on me
You said that you liked my big buck teeth
And I was taken in by your many lovely chins

On the internet

No one can see your thighs

On the internet

or your goofy crossed eyes

On the internet

You can't see pimply skin

On the internet

Just the beauty within

On the internet, internet

First Date: Let's meet and discover if there is chemistry and a connection. The two of us can then agree on an actual first date. I am very open to different experiences