I am leaving this profile up but I am finished fishing in this spot and pretty much every other fishing hole in this universe. After 10 years of failed relationships and pointless heart breaks I have decided to give up on my search for my other half, my yang or my true north....... I own a small business that sells and installs video surveillance systems. I also do multimedia systems and event production. I guess thats a fancy way of saying DJ service for bars, receptions, and private parties. I am an ex-paramedic and police officer so I dont do drama, divorced, and very outgoing. I am looking to make new friends and see where things go from there. I have a couple of kids and they are awesome. They come and stay with me from time to time as their studies allow so I am compltely open to forming new friendships that include children. Music is my soul! I am open to every relm of music but I have my old standards. I play the guitar, piano, drums, and sing. Maybe we can go do kerioke one nite or take in the Pappa Roach concert next month. Next if you do not have the ability to be an honest person then do not bother reading another word on this page. I treat all I meet and associate with the way I want them to treat me and that includes the person I am with. I love the way I want to be loved. That would be with respect, honesty, equality, trust and passion. Last but not least if you have a pill addiction be it pain pill or nerv pill please move on. Now dr. prescribed and taken accordingly is fine but Im not doin the whole ER hoppin thing again with anyone.

After several months and feeling the way I described above I dont believe I will be having a first date again but if there were here goes. There are serveral options that come to mind when thinking first date one could be a nice walk on the river front, up onto the Arch grounds. There is nothing more romantic than the St. Louis downtown all lit up at nite. Or a ride up Market St. to find a quiet spot for dinner maybe beside the indoor lake at Union Station followed by a nice walk along the fountains towards downtown.