wanted to ask. does anybody search by personality and how well does that work for you?

I was going to cancel this account. I'm in no hurry to find some one. If you got a message from me then there was something that really stood out about you. I know it sounds arrogant but if you got a message take it as some sort of compliement. I have read just about 150 or more proefiles, Most women say the same three or four things. If I sent you a message thats most likely not you. You said something with substance.
I have a good job and have had a job since I was 17 not always the same place or work but I will work. I dont need someone in my life, I want someone in my life, huge difference. I like to plan but I also jump on something if it spraks my interest. example: I am saving for a trip cancun for two hopfully, but if something comes up like say some once in a life time event out of town comes up and I have time off and enough money well see ya when I get back. I am not out chasing women all over town. I have two little girls and a younger son. I am not looking for a mommy, but I'm not going to run around with a woman that is not a good influence, I have kids. I leads by example.If I choose a person thats going some place then maybe my kids will as well. I like to travel. If you do not then I am not for you. I dont go to clubs very often and will not go to a bar every night or every weekend. So if that's a must for you then keeping looking. I will from time to time go to a bar or a club. If your used to dating guys that either treat you like dirt or treat like property and you for some reason like it, well Im not for you. I will respect you and I will be your friend. I will act like a gentleman because that just me. I have my own home. I have my own friends. No I wont force them on you if you dont like them then I will respect that, with the idea that the same goes for me. I love all my closest friends like blood and they know that if I'm a relationship with someone serious, that person will come first. But not for petty things. I do not cheat. I am with someone for life, thick and thin, if they are worth to me then I'm willing to lay down my life for them. I'm not looking for a one night stand. I am looking for exactly this: open minded, ambitious, is happy with them self, can take care of them self, independent, has a job, and wants a man to treat them like a lady. Everything else will work its self out if you have these qualities. I am old fashion, in the sense that i like to gout and date. There is no emotion on here there are no facial reaction to notice on here. I want to sit down or go out and noticed thing about you. Like your smile or your eyes or the way you laugh. Doesn't mean I'll like any of it just means I can get a feel for who you really are. this is really important. Don't ask me question that you don"t really want the answer to. As far as music pretty open grew up in the southsdie of Fort Worth so I got a taste for a little of all of it. Oh yea, you need to be educated. Self taught of school taught doesnt matter but I like people who can teach me something. I reccomend that you give me chance. If nothing else if I like you I am sometimes a good person to know.

dinner, drinks, bowling, pool, six flags, picnic, scoop of ice cream, go somewhere and talk.