Can I ask you a question or perhaps a few? Do you really want to stroll in the rain? If so, have you considered lightening strikes? Stepping on night crawlers. Do you really want to walk barefoot in the sand? If you do, is your tetanus shot updated or would you be sporting foot wear? Did you refer to the US height and weight scale before saying you were, "average"? If you listed over 3 attributes for an ideal match. Does your imagination matched your reality. Love spontaneous and exotic vacations and fine dining? Do your resources permit it?. If you categorically stated, "I know what I want in a man and I will not accept anything less." How long have you been saying that? What happened to the last one? Have you stated, " I look younger.” Or “ I am told I don't look my age”.....”Nobody guesses my age..Etc” Does it come at the mid-night hour from a lounge lizard. Do you remember someone telling your grandmother her blue hair looked "so nice"? Listen, the option to aging is not good, unless you subscribe to the adage that death is a part of life and life is good. Tongue in cheek or irony?

I too, metaphorically want to stroll in a light drizzle and feel the warm sand between my toes on some far away beach. The truth is, I will feel the sand and drizzle just by being with a special person. I will see those lines around your eyes and mouth as years of smiling that cannot be erased. I will see those few extra pounds around the waist as opportunities to spend time together eating healthy food or bike rides. I will see that your kindness and giving are not without limits. Honesty is not a character flaw. A half truth or omission, is a lie! An undetected lie is not the truth! Honesty in matters of the heart is without compromise. However, all questions do not always deserve an answer. Now, unless you understand my point, it would be a waste of your time to read further..



My interests and tastes can best be described as, eclectic. Examples would include, but not limited to: Music: I enjoy everything from Bocelli's "Prayer" to raps "Golddigger". Drink wine from a box. Find that diamond in the rough resturant. My favorite movies have been art films and/or low budget. Polictical: Winston Churchill reportedly once said, "If you are young and not a liberal, you do not have a heart. If you are older and not conservative, you do not have a brain"... I am a risk taker and somewhat adventuresome, I do not take uncalculated risks, in my personal life or otherwise. I am ambitious, but I have always remembered. "The early bird gets the worm", but "the second mouse gets the cheese." Fitness, I attempt to remain physically fit by exercising on a regular basis. My main course has been biking and trail rides. I enjoy many HBO series (its not TV). And current events. Of course I am willing to dance (like no one is watching) . Browsing antique shops fun, home improvement fulfilling. I am debt, nicotine, drug free...pragmatic yet willing to throw caution the wind, after calculating the risk. I am reasonably decent looking and doubt that I would embarrass anyone in any social setting.

I grudging post a photo And for the most part have found some to be deceptive. For the most part I would be willing to meet with most anyone sight unseen for a latte’ and biscotti. I enjoy physical chemistry, but also learned the “ all that glitters is not gold”.

Ok, I looked at you and you looked at me, who now is to suffer "the slings and arrows of..." rejection or reception with the first contact.