Hi there! My name is Tan. I am currently unattached, live alone, very independent, and fun to be around. Have a Yorkie named Ayla whom I absolutely adore, she's the sweetest dog you'll ever meet. I am here because I am ready to settle down and build the family every woman dreams about. I am the epitome of a good woman and I know that, so I will not just give myself to anyone because God said I don't have to settle...and I won't. I am a graduate of UNC Greensboro and I work as a Manager at a local baby store. I love my job although it doesn't permit me much of a social life (hence the reason I am trying online dating).

I am looking for a sensitive, caring, honest, mature, attractive man who is ready to invest time and energy into a worthwhile, lasting relationship. At this juncture in life I have too much going on to risk being in a relationship with a man that doesn't know what he wants in life. I am very outgoing and ambitious. I love the beach first and foremost as well as traveling, movies, shopping, cars, live performances like plays, operas, concerts, and dances. I am very versatile with music other than heavy metal because that's just doing too much and I'll quickly get a headache...lol. I love laughing and staying positive because I think it is the most important prescription for living a long and healthy life! My belief is that nothing is so serious that I can't find something positive in it. I could go on and on for days about me and the things I love and am interested in, but that wouldn't leave much room for conversation so I'll spare you more details. On another note, I'm an open book so if there is anything you would like to know, just ask.

A first date should be laid back and informal. I believe that this is the time when first impressions are made and the bar is initially set, so I think the atmosphere should be conducive to such interaction. I'm thinking a summer picnic, a walk through a trail, a relaxing dinner at a quiet restaurant, wine tasting at a popular winery, or something of the like. I NEVER accept an invite to anyone's house for a first date, to me that's really tacky when you are pursuing someone new...and NEVER a movie for a first date because there is no time to talk! Unless dinner precedes the movie, then seeing a movie afterwards is acceptable. On a first date I would like to talk and get to know one another a bit. I'm not saying it should be like an interview, It should just be time to laugh and get a grasp of each others personality.