Ok...first off, I don't really think that people should judge other people just on how they look....BUT- there needs to be an attraction. If I am not your cup of tea physically,and you don't want to take the time to get to know me...that's fine. But at the same time, please do not be offended if I am not attracted to you...I treat people the way I would like to be treated.... That being said, I don't think I am unattractive...but I will say this....NO ONE IS PERFECT. I am 31 (so I don't look like a teeny-bopper bar hopper) and I have had a child...so I am not a size 4....I am tall and curvy and carry myself VERY WELL. But looks aside...I am a GOOD PERSON, and a GREAT WOMAN. I am honest, caring, funny, sensitive but can be tough when I need to be.
Definition???? I will love you like you have NEVER been loved before...but I demand RESPECT...sorry to sound harsh..but that is my disclaimer..LOL

I AM LOOKING FOR A REAL MAN! I NEED A MAN WHO KNOWS WHAT HE WANTS FROM A WOMAN, KNOWS WHAT HE WANTS OUT OF LIFE, AND KNOWS HOW TO BE A LOVER AS WELL AS BEST FRIEND TO HIS PARTNER. I am so tired of the "little boys" Who Don't MAN-UP...state how they feel at any given moment, and keep to themselves...

First and foremost-My family is VERY important to me, as they have been my strength through the past couple of rough years I have had....but I am on my way back on top!!!
If you're looking for a woman who will be true, loving and everything you want in a partner..as well as a woman who will be your best friend and TRULY have your back.....Here I am.
I want a man who can't WAIT to be with me....but is capable of being WITHOUT ME. This means YOU have your own life and friends apart from me and mine....it's ok...we can each have a separate life apart from one another, as well as get the whole gang together sometimes.
Be warned....Trust,with me,is not given out easily and needs to be earned in time. I DO NOT want to rush into ANYTHING right now...but would like the chance to make the right man VERY HAPPY...cheesy right??? But it is as honest as I can get these days.....
If you've heard all this, and are, by some miracle, still interested in getting to know one another....message me...ya never know.....Oh---one more VERY IMPORTANT bit of info you need to know about me....I have an 11 year old son who is my world....he's a good kid..and guards me to no end....lol

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE DO ME A FAVOR....IF YOU VIEW ME AND ARE NOT INTERESTED...CAN YOU AT LEAST MESSAGE ME AND TELL ME WHAT IT WAS THAT TURNED YOU OFF ABOUT ME....WAS IT THE WAY THAT I LOOK? WAS IT SOMETHING I SAID IN MY PROFILE???? So many of you are viewing, and then I don't get a message...and I wonder what exactly is wrong with me.....FILL ME IN, PLEASE!!!

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