I keep getting asked what I want. After some consideration and wine, below was formed, saving myself some answers and possibly narrowing our search up front.

I'm slightly old school, have strong values and believe men should do the chasing. I am extremely loyal, adore my children, family and friends. I like to have fun and have a lot of energy. I also have an extremely feminine side and love wearing heels. The curvy/athletic/slender thing was hard because I'm all.

I love to cook, have bbq pool parties, quiet rainy movie days, road trips, falling asleep to storms, Cayenne Pepper, massages, long kisses, working in my yard, jet skiing, red wine, hikes, Sunday morning paper with coffee, special effect movies, anything in or around the water, camping and I play soccer. Sweet and honest, with just a twist of goofy. I am adaptable, patient, very affectionate, sometimes shy yet I can be the life of the party. Respectful, and can stay calm in crisis and in arguments. I like to maturely rationalize and shut down if someone yells, swears or is cruel. It takes a lot to anger me and then I just get quiet.
I am highly capable, very intelligent and might on a whim decide to run to Home Depot and put in a sprinkler system or retile the bathroom, but you will also see the vulnerable side that needs you as well. I would never make you feel jealous or flirt. I do not play games, but I am hard to get through to, you will need patience and understanding to earn my trust and bring your best wooing techniques, lol. I can do "single" well, but I am happiest in a relationship. I know exactly what I want and will not settle. I am capable of loving deeply and faithfully. I am really balanced : )

All this and no cats? Sounds too good to be true?... here's the down side... don't hurt my feelings, I need reassurance and attention, don't reject me, or break my trust...that's all..it's that simple. I need occasional space and would not blend with someone who needed a ton of it. I truly am rarely cranky......and if I really trust you...you will never have experienced adoration, affection and passion like that in your life. I am not kidding.

About you.... in essence you are a lot like me...intelligent, sweet, respectful, a true gentleman, likes kids, patient, are loyal, passionate, sensual, romantic and can take charge sometimes. You are witty, rarely lose track of your drinking limit, are sometimes goofy, honest and when you kiss you hold a woman's face with both hands, relaxed bottom lip, eyes locked...and kiss softly with purpose. Phewww almost got carried away there. You take your time, are methodical and learn my needs. You may even be a little jealous, possessive and can't keep your hands off of me. That's ok it will just make me feel more secure ; ) as long as you don't say "Are you wearing that out?" or "Did you look at him"? that might be a bit much haha.
You are open and truthful and can carry on an in depth conversation for hours uncovering each other's real selves, dreams, deepest emotions, fears and fantasies. I would always support whom I love no matter what. I am mature enough to know the grass is not greener and realationships take understanding, compassion and some work.

I prefer a quick meet/drink to test a connection.

PS I don't kiss on the 1st date : 0 and if you read all of this and are still in, put in my code word: "Sassypants" in your email. That'll weed em out, lol.