I am a 30yr old South African girl. Been in the states since 2002 and love it. I enjoy outdoor activities such as camping, fishing, hiking, comedy clubs, romantic walks either on the beach at night, downtown holding hands and stopping for frequent kisses... I love trying new restaurants and I also love to cook romantic dinners with my special man friend with lots of little tastes in between. I love dressing up and going out, but can also have a wonderful evening staying in, cuddling,sipping on some wine.

I dont have many girl friends just because I've always find it hard to meet simple honest grown up women... I usually get along with males easier than women, so i have no problem hanging out with the boys. I'll take care of the snacks, so bring your friends over for the ball game and lets have some fun~

I have a little sausage dog named buddy, and he is my only child so far... lol.. I like all different kinds of music as long as it is not heavy metal kind of music. Different kinds of music for different situations..I am pretty much laid back and what you see is what you get. I am a little shy at first, but on fire once i feel comfortable around you.. I am not a couch potato, but enjoy to watch some of my fav shows like House, Office, big bang theory, the cooking channel and ohhh Family guy.. lol...My whole family is still back home in South Africa, and try to at least visit them once a year if possible..

My friends would describe me as funny, caring, layed back, loyal, the "real" friend out of the bunch and funcrazy at times!! I am ready to fall in love with my best friend, loyal man, a romantic lover, caring and respectable gentelman and a man that has his head on straight. I have been in different situations before, so it is not a requirement that you are a director or corp lawyer for Lilly's!! lol Id rather be with someone who has common sense,all the qualities I am looking for in a man, and someone who is passionate about life and family...

People usually warm up to me very quickly, and they feel like they can be themselves around me ~ I just know that as I've been told that ~ I am not the kind of girl that just assumes that I am dating someone exclusively after going out on 1 or 2 dates. I believe that after a few dates ~ not more than 10 ~ if I still look happy, and the guy feels the same, that he should officially ask me out..I am 30 and are really done playing the mind and the guessing games.. I am serious about meeting someone special...I have so much in my heart to offer to one special person...Please only respond if you are serious. I think by now I will be able to sniff out the losers, so please dont bother...

I am a very forgiving person and being faithfull is very important to me therefore, to me, cheating once, is about it...the only thing that will never be acceptable and visa versa...Trust is a very tender point for me.

I love children and hope to have a couple myself one day ~ I think I am starting to realise that I can't do that on my own ;-)

lets meet for a quick cup of coffee at *bucks, or if you dont drink coffee, maybe a drink on the way home? Something not longer than an hour. That should be enough time to decide if both of us would want to go out on our 1st date...

Then.. the 1st date could be anything fun, anywhere. I've been on wine and dine 1st dates and I've been on a 1st date where we sat outside the car on the grass, and build pretzel figures.. (( yeah i know ))