Well my name is O'tia but everyone calls me Tia.I'm 18 years old.I have a young daughter.I am a single mother so I have no time for lies,games,and the people who play them.I'm not "ghetto" or another "babymomma" out here trying to be wild and crazy because i have a child at a young age.I take care of her on my own with the help of my mother.I'm currently in school to become an elementary teacher and next spring ill be transfering to Oakland University and pledging.Im not on here looking to meet a sex buddy and if thats how you approach me then dont expect a reply from me.Im young but by no means am I ignorant,nasty,immature,or going to disrespect myself.And as a sidenote men,if you are in a relationship in any way shape or form please pass me up.


I have come to realize that the world around me is changing all the time.The people you know change all the time so in reality it would seem that you know no one.Life isnt about bein right our being better than the next person but its about loving the people that matter.Tolerating the people who dont matter to you but mean the world to someone else.Everyone needs love and if people would realize that we would probably would live in a much better world.


I enjoy a variety of music but somehow I became infatuated with Luther Vandross.He is absolutely wonderful.

WEll I love parks and Downtown Lansing is starting to become beautiful,so maybe we could go and have a conversation over lunch...or if its raining outside we can head to Christie's for breakfast...Its all up to him....