OK -let's be honest first please, we all know there needs to be an attraction for any relationship to begin so..... if you are not able to flirt and keep up a decent conversation - please don't waste my time.

Now with that said, on to more pleasant things, I promise -- I'm no snob...just selective ;)

I enjoy thought provoking, as well as laugh out loud movies, long walks pretty much anywhere as long as the weather and company are good , museums, music (of all kinds), books (fiction and non-fiction), volunteering, dinner out on the town and good conversation at a coffee house. I am a down to earth, warm and caring woman. I have a great family and friends who mean the world to me. I enjoy my career and getting involved with the community.

I am looking for a man with warmth, smarts, moral character and a good sense of humor. Someone who has a healthy dose of confidence and humility. You should make me feel relaxed but also slightly nervous with your casual flirting :) You need to be someone who can give, not just take. You should be someone who isn't afraid to show some affection or be completely obtuse when someone else is showing you affection!

I have a lot to offer and I am looking for someone who does too! :) I would like to have some fun with a good man and see where it goes! I have a really stressful job and if you can make me laugh or help me relieve some stress, that would be great!

For a first date, I think a drink out is nice.

Honestly, I just enjoy good company and if it's with a man who is genuine and respectful (big plus for being a romantic!) - I am usually up for anything. Most times it doesn't matter what we do, it's if both parties are equally enjoying each others company.

I want to think there are still "good" men out there, maybe you can prove me right?! :)