Hi my name is Virginia and I am a 31 y/o mom to 2 boys. Clinton 12 (lives in IL) and Jacob 7 (lives with me). I am divorced. I am 5'3", 135lbs, Size 6, Long Red hair, Hazel eyes, wear glasses/contacts.

I am a package deal if you are only interested in me don't bother emailing me. I have Jacob with me full-time, yes I have a babysitter but not on speed-dial. Not only do you have to win me over but you have to win Jacob over.

I am originally from Kittery, Maine. Since joining the Navy I have been on 3 deployments I have visited Spain, Italy, Turkey, Bahrain, Dubai, Greece, and many more. I am currently stationed here in Mississippi, I do not know where my next stop will be. All I ask is if you are military and contact me please tell me what rank you are. There are some rules that can't be broken. I am an instructor I will not date a student. I am enlisted I will not date an officer. As for Chief's - I won't date you either.

My hobbies include: walking on the beach, running, movies, concerts, will watch any sport live and on tv, enjoy sitting on a park bench and people watch, enjoy nature, gun range. Huge Patriots fan, Boston Red Sox fan....and currently any team that takes the Saints undefeated title away HAHA THE COWBOYS DID IT!!

I am sorry but I do not find pleasure in going out to clubs/bars I would rather be at home and relax with a few sips of whatever I am feeling like that night. Gambling seems to be the "in" thing down here I do not feel lucky enough to take my hard earned money and piss it away just because of a "feeling". I enjoy shooting pool and darts while listening to the locals sing Karaoke.

Current goals are to complete my Bachelors Degree in Health Administration and Information Systems.

Looking to learn salt water fishing. Looking for a gun range to go shooting at. Looking for someone that you can hang out with first then, go on dates with, and have a good time with no matter what is going on.

I don't go to church as much as I should or better say I haven't been in a long time but I was once told by a Priest "Love is the unconditional commitment to an imperfect person". Flaws are acceptable but honestly some are not able to looked past. Playing single but forgetting to mention that you are married - I will find out! Pretending that you are something that you are not - I will find out!

If a friendship and communication is strong then there is a foundation for a potential relationship. Dating experience = None! I was a young Mom and never found time to date, I would love experience the dating scene, getting dressed up, getting a babysitter to go out for the night, maybe dance a little.

I am unique because of my personality, outgoing, love to laugh, wicked honest, communication is very important. I am a giver most of all, I prefer to please then to be pleased, it doesn't mean I don't want to be pleased. The little things matter most to me, bigger things not so much. A random phone call, a simple text, hand written note....these are the things that can make me smile.

I love music, I listen to music non-stop. I LOVE COUNTRY!! I listen to many other genres, heavy metal, 60's, 70's, 80's, rock, alternative.

My first date would be very laid back something to allow a line of communication to flow.