I retired a year ago and I am having a great time. I am learning how to do the shag which is the dance of NORTH AND SOUTH CAROLINA and it has been wonderful.I am traveling in the future and have spent time making arrangements. It is time to leave the boring stuff behind and move on

I think a first date is always difficult. A time to learn about the other person would be a suggestion. I think a coffee house or maybe a walk on the beach.