This is me.......
I know im not what most women are looking for but im not looking for most women....im looking for just one. I am an active guy. I like to actually do things( mostly outdoor activities), one of my favorites are scuba diving. I don't own an x-box and don't want one. I am an artist, I do painting, sculpture, carving, tattoos, ect. I can come off as shy at first (especially in large crowds) but people who know me will say that i am anything but shy. I am into underground music (if it is on the radio I probity wont like it.) I like moshpits but I also don't mind dancing. I play guitar and like to sing off key. my favorite song is "simple man". I'm going to helicopter pilot school and doing tattoos to pay for it. There is more to me than listed here but you need to judge for yourself.

This is not me.....
first off, I am not a pretty boy. I have tattoos, don't mind getting dirty and am not vain about looks. I am quite happy in jeans and a t-shirt (though I'm told i clean up nice when it suits me). I'm bad at spelling so please forgive the mistakes if any. I don't play games an will not tolerate them. I try to live as drama free as i can. I absolutely hate fake people.

something simple, cheap and non-distracting at first. I think the first date is about getting to know the person and a loud places like clubs or bars are not good for that. I am a fan of parks, beaches, quit resterants or coffee shops. basically anywhere a good conversation could be held. then if things go well enough and we are both interested the dates get progressively more suited to us as a couple.