I am a white male who is inshape, but NOT a muscle head. My brain, heart & soul are bigger than my biceps. I am a non smoker, no drugs and a casual drinker, (ok..ok... sometimes a little too casual..ha ha). I can hold a conversation, (seems to be a rare thing these days) and know how to listen. I am looking for someone who is fun, playful & passionate. We all have "baggage", but I am looking for someone with just an overnight bag and NOT a complete set of luggage. I also know age can "sometimes" just be a number. It is not how many years you lived, but how you lived those years. I am 45 years old, but been told I can pass for 35, wisdom of a 95 year old, and can sometimes have the energy of a 15 year old. I will keep this short for now, but there is so MUCH more to me than this little profile box allows. So don't be shy and just say hi.

POF is a great way to meet people you would of never met if it wasn't for being online. That being said some people take this site WAAAAY too seriously. We all have had horror stories on here, but I know I am a semi normal person with much to offer and there has to be others like me on here.

I get a kick out of some of the proifles and women on here. They want their date to be on the cover of GQ magazine, CEO of a Fortune 500 Company, drive a Mercedes Benz 500SL or better, been featured in Muscle & Fitness, be a famous chef, willing to give up his life for someone on POF, but when you read their profile they offer NOTHING...LOL. They have 3 jobs, attend school, do bible studies, 2 ex husbands, 9 kids, volunteer for the Salvation Army, bowl on tuesdays, karate on thursdays, but want a guy that is available for them...how funny!!!

Please have photos to contact me, (or ready to send several after you made contact).

One last thing if you take the time to write me I will reply, (even if not interested) and would hope and expect the same from the women I contact.

I think meeting for a casual drink or two is a good start. If we hit it off we can take it from there.