I'm new to Wichita and spend most of my time working. However, I do like to relax and breathe sometimes. In my spare time I like to read and tinker around with things. I'm a former music industry guy and love to record music with friends just for the love of the craft. I've lived alot of places, done and seen alot of things. I'm really at stage in life where I'm starting to work on the legacy I'll leave for my kids. Its important to me that none of my descendants have to start at zero $ when its time to start their adult lives. So far Wichita women seem to all be into this "friends with benefits" game and its a strange thing. Too much for me. Just looking to connect with somebody that is serious about themselves, their goals, etc. and not into nonsense. Am I gonna have to import somebody from out of state?