Okay, so I went through the process of seeking a partner in crime via the net. I made some good friends. I had some crazy experiences. I think I hurt some people, opps, sorry. I foolishly thought I found "the one". But mostly I learned a lot. So here I am back again, with a fresh outlook on what’s really important.

I’m pretty content with me, most days. I strive to design a healthy and joyous life. I understand that my happiness is my responsibility, not yours. My discovery that life is indeed way to short to waste has helped me to be mindful of my choices. Which brings me to, time. I work full time. Enjoy the occasional (his friends are his world as of current, lol) company of my 14 year old son. A great person that teaches me a lot but lives with his father. Go to university part time and frequent the gym weekly. I guess for me or like a lot of people time has become a treasured scarcity. Which brings me back to why I’m here and why I’m seeking you.

Its not that I need a man. Its that some times I want a man. Does that mean Im lonley? No.. lol.. but some times when I go through life’s challenges and find that I’ve arose to the occasion and stretched just that little bit more in triumph. Or fumbled clumsily through the hard lessons I turn around and realize that I have a missed opportunity to share it all. I do have meaningful people in my life. My weekends can be full and I can usually round up the troops for some fun. But I think there is something to be said for the tenderness and quiet knowing.

So, who you are.. Well.. I think I’m going to be quiet and let you tell me..

PS. Must not mind affection, my kitten, occasional off key singing, and not think of my being here for forever texting, emailing, or hooking up. Oh and into laughing till we cry a bonus.

You tell me.