Where to start!

OK...My name is Stormy, Im from San Diego, Ca. (born and raised) been living in Dayton, Oh. for 11 yrs now. I am a single mother of a great boy who turned 7 this year. I am an Administrator by trade, Bartender of 16 yrs (retired). I am a tall girl (just shy of 5'10..and only tall from the waist down..lol) I am big boned so im told and tend to carry a few extra lbs (but the 'few extra lbs on here seem to be 50-100 extra...thats not the case and u can see from my photos). I have brown hair and eyes..and yes the drapes match the carpet, but sometimes I wonder...I do have my blonde moments..I dont wear much if any make up as u can see...i prefer to be as natural as possible..but there are nights I like to get dolled up and paint the town..I am sort of a tomboy I guess because I am not affraid to get dirty...gettin dirty is part of the fun if you ask me!..In a comfy enviornment, I tend to be loud and obnoxious, wild & crazy, but all in fun! Its also not rare for me to be the one in the corner alone with my drink..spectating =). I have some piercings and tats, plan on gettin more ink when the time is right. I enjoy life, laughing, smiling and hopefully will find love again.

My Interests:

I love to ride my motorcycle. I have been riding since I was 6 and I look forward to gettin my son his first bike so he can enjoy riding too! I love traveling, cooking, BBQ's & grilling out, road trips, camping, sunrises, sunsets, gardening & landscaping, boating & watercraft, sports, playin in the snow and warming up to a hot cup of cocoa by the fire, entertaining friends and guests, bon fires, summer nights & lazy days of summer, rain, thunderstorms, cold snowy nights by the fire place with a glass of wine (or a bottle..lol whos keepin track!)or hanging out in the hot tub while the snow falls ( i just love that!), music of all types (not so much on country or rap), surfing, beaches, full moons, night on the town, spending time with good friends, shopping, dogs (not so much a cat person, allergies i guess), tinkering on my guitar (cant play..dont ask LOL...its just something i enjoy doing from time to time), bike rallys & events, working out ( i try to at least 4-5 times a week, but im not obsessed with it..it just makes me feel good about me! and working toward a night out of ribeyes and cheese cake once a year is worth it! lol), meetin new people, breakfast in bed...concerts, culture & diversity, bar hopping (not alot, but its fun on the bike..and no i dont get plowed when i ride..thats not even cool and I dont like to ride with people who do..I like coming home to my son!)..spending time with my son and gettin into things he enjoys like, boy scouts, sleep overs, gaming, sports...I'll pretty much try anything once..twice if I liked it!! Out side the social circut...I really enjoy quite nights at home with family, cuddling, watching movies, board games, etc. There is more but Im not sure how much i can write here...babble babble babble!! lol

I enjoy helping others who need it...I do alot of benefits for cures for cancer, kids, homeless, houses for humanity, animals, vets and troops still out there keeping us free!! I am not a hard core picketer or anything..but if i can help i will and do!


Turn Offs:

Hateful people, back stabbers, liars, theifs, cheaters, anti-socials, racists, 2 faced, people who are closed minded and cant accept change, ppl who judge a book by its cover before reading the first chapter, people who are shallow,trivial, people who arent real with them selfs, ppl who think they are better than others because of money or toys (really, who cares),drama and drama makers..move on!, animal abusers, child abusers and preditors (off with their heads!), miserable people who are focused on trying to bring others to their level, drug addicts, alcoholics ( i drink, but i also go to work and pay my bills), felons, bible thumpers ( i believe, and my relationship with my god is my own...), people who want help but wont help themselfs, I also think its rude to not respond to an email rather than just say 'hey im not interested'..it only takes a few seconds....oh yeah...and im very turned off by President Obama, I dont vote, never have..but i would like to thank those who did!


My Ideal Man:

Well honesly I am attracted to tall men (6'0 or taller)(since im tall myself its nice to wear heels with a skirt and not be looking down 2 ft. at my date! its a preference...not set in stone), age between 38-48 (give or take), does not have baggage from an old girlfriend or ex wife..(me an my ex are great friends, but i dont take him places with me), secure financially, meaning, doesnt live with mom at 40 and pays his bills before he blows his check at the bar...likes kids (since I have my son)it would be nice if he even had 1 or 2 of his own..i enjoy the family life too!, rides a motorcycle or at least doenst mind if i ride mine..but it would be great to find a man with the same interests, strong but not overbearing, protective but not jealous, funny, has a wild & crazy side, someone who can walk the fence between fun and too much fun without falling off...someone who likes suprises and likes to be suprised...someone who likes sex and still wants to have sex (you would be suprised!), has energy to do things on friday after work!, has teeth!, somewhat fit (if you cant reach your own feet, you are too big for me), takes care of him self and has good hygiene, can make his own decissions (im not tryin to raise you along with my son), honest, caring, trusting, compassionate, understanding, someone not affraid to show or express feelings, someone who can COMMUNICATE (most important!!!..im not a mind reader nor will i try or pretend to be.), outgoing, social..and someone who is not affraid to be a MAN!

Drug Users:

I dont care if you smoke pot..as long as selling pot is not your occupation...Ive been know to partake here and there..and it will be legal someday...but as far as the coke heads, crack addicts, junkies, full blown alcoholics...dont waste your time here...I have NO place in my life for that kind of drama...you will find yourself just as you came...alone...i dont want it in my life or around my son..he deserves better than that...

Well thanks for taking time to read my page....and maybe Mr. Right isnt too far away!

Hugs~