I am a bi-sexual female who is in a permanent relationship with my husband. He accepts me for all parts of me, and is willing to share so that I can fill that void in my life. If I find a g/f that is only interested in me, that is fine. If I find one that is willing to help complete both our lives, all the better. I am on the road a lot, and need someone that is patient and understanding. Someone that is not demanding is a plus. I have very eclectic tastes that swing with my moods, so it's hard to describe my likes/dislikes when it comes to movies, music, or anything else. I am very serious minded, but I do have a sense of humor that tends toward the perverted/twisted/demented side. I am very family oriented, and devoted to same. If the person that is interested in me cannot accept my family, she is not accepted, no matter how she makes me feel. My family is my life. And, since I am in a relationship with a very loving, understanding, and tolerant man, I would love to find the same in a female partnership. It is the only thing missing from my life.

First dates are all about getting to know one another. The setting needs to be comfortable for both people involved, and it needs to be one on one. No parties. No crowds. No "friends" tagging along. The activity is set by the situation, and the setting is decided by the mood. Spontaniousness is a must.