I am retired US Army (Paratrooper, Drill Sergeant, VN Vet, Military Policeman, First Sergeant). I played all sports in HS and was a running back in football, and point guard in basketball. I also played baseball and later a lot of softball. I changed to Golf when I turned 50 and once had a 7 handicap (About 15 now). I lost my only child in 95 and still grieve at times. I have been married 2 times (20 yrs and 13 yrs). I had a 4 year relationship with a wonderful gal who died in Jan 09 after a long illness. She was 54 and a sweetheart and I miss her. Non the less I want to go on with my life and am looking for a nice lady who is very affectionate and a great kisser. I play trumpet in church and love Bill Gaither music. Hope to meet you soon. John :)

I think a first meeting should be for a drink or coffee and that each should be flexable. If it goes great then maybe a meal or extended stay. Otherwise an hour or two to see what is going on.