Hobbies: coffee shop hopping, kick boxing, flea market, scrap booking my niece and places I've been, traveling, relaxing

Goals/aspirations: I enjoy being a part of people's journey. I would love to start a foundation that inspires people to live their best lives, and I would provide counseling, couching, supports to help them...I would be a life architect.

My uniqueness: I'm pretty aware that people are all the same...they all want to be loved and accepted. I don't believe in perfection, or that the point is perfection. I believe there is no merit in being right (or wrong for that matter) there is only merit in how you live out what you believe. My friends would say that I am one of Raleigh's best kept secrets!

Music: really depends on my mood...while I'm not hardly ever into gangster rap, or twangy country...Jazz, classical, rock, soft rock....I love a song in 3/4 or 6/8 time!

Through the dating experience I've learned that activity makes or a better date...whether that is picking three items in a book store that say something about you or your life and then sharing them with your date in the coffee shop of the book store. IMing each other across from each other in a coffee shop. Getting a meal at a restaurant that neither person has been to. Going for ice cream and allowing the other to pick the flavor you get. But of all the first dates that I've been on....whether creative or basic....it mattered more the person I was with then what we are doing! It is always a gift for someone to share their life with you, even if it only for a moment. Might I get the pleasure of sharing a moment of your life with you.