My name is Ben and I guess I would fit in the category of a toned and tattoo'd nerd. I grew up as an Air Force Brat so I have lived in a lot of different places in my life. I am British to the bone. Half of my family is from the UK and I spent 5 years living there. I am very well rounded as I have met so many different people from all walks of life with all the traveling I did as a kid. I am laid back and very caring and compassionate. I am looking for a guy who does his best to remain drama free and takes care of his body. I would like to meet a guy who is sensitive, assertive, and hopefully cute. I like intelligent men, so If you are smart that is a huge plus. I want someone who can compliment my occasional awkwardness and who takes the time to understand me on a deeper level. Hook ups are fine if you are respectful, but in the end I am looking for something deeper.

Like so many people I love music. I used to be a DJ here in Green Bay at 29 steps and the Shelter for Industrial Nights. I love all kinds of music but I draw the line at country. Goth/Industrial/EBM music is a passion of mine and I love bands like Front Line Assembly, VNV Nation, KMFDM, Assemblage 23, Type O Negative etc. I love to write, whether it be poetry or stories, or political pieces. I have very few family members, so my friends are my family. I would do anything for them and I pride myself on loyalty. I am a hopeless romantic and yes guys, I like to cuddle. Any gay or Bi man who doesn't think that is masculine enough, don't bother talking to me.

Just a note, I am tired of the drama guys. The bar scene is a lot of fun as are hook ups, and I still get my share. However, If you are looking for someone to just use or play with don't waste my time, these days I can see it coming. If you are looking for a kind and caring guy who takes care of his body and his mind, look no further. I can be a little shy at times, but I am definitely worth your time if you wanna take a chance.

On a first date I am fine with coffee and conversation. A walk through a park to get to know each other, or the more traditional dinner and a movie.