Laughing and enjoying life are how I define myself. I work hard and play hard as I really enjoy so very many things. Just as I love to laugh and be active, I can also be serious and spend some quiet time reading or watching a good movie.

This summer was one of the best but I certainly missed having someone special in my life. I was able to travel for work (and take some pleasure days), traveled to see family, and took a golf vacation where I not only played golf but was able to bike and hike in beautiful Torrey Pines / San Diego and biked in Colorado. Dancing became a new hobby but I know most men don't relish this so certainly I understand....but hope that you would love music as this is what brought me to "move to the music".

Watching sport events certainly is great especially when my teams are winning (go Phillies) or not (come on Eagles!) but if it is not the seasonal play offs and someone offers up another fun activity, then I will DVR it or catch the score later.

My friends are abundant and my family great (but they live in other states) as do my children. I always make time for them but have a life outside of them. They have really been there for the good times and the hard times...truely good people.

What am I looking for? Right now, I just want to enjoy good conversation and being with someone who enjoys some of the things I do - and someone who offers something that my life does not have now. Wallflowers - I am not your woman. Serious about getting married again - well not right now for me either but maybe again some day?

I'd like to explore new interests, share interests and enjoy social events with a kind-hearted, intelligent man. Of course, a deep friendship and affection are must haves.....

First date - since I believe in chemistry, I prefer not to email too much or talk on the phone much but instead have a "safe" meeting for coffee or a drink/appetizer and see how things go from there.

Second dates - well, let's do something fun and get to know eachother.