I am 39 and I have a 12 year old son that spends the weekends with me. I also have a 17 year old daughter. I'm very proud of my kids and their general nature about them. I have a great relationship with my mother, she raised my brother and I through hard times and taught me the true values in life. Im hoping to find a woman that is so down to earth and really means what she says and isnt afraid to speak her mind. I love to be around people that like to laugh and joke about whatever, even if it's at my expense...hahaha ok lets not get to carried away there! I am easy going,smart,funny and I go out of my way for people I like, and many times for strangers. I have no desire to spend my life chasing materials of the earth. The true search is in the spirit. Think what you want, but what is real is the people in your lives that love you and the love you give equals the love you recieve. Making a stranger smile and feel good about themselves is priceless.
I like people that speak about their feelings when they feel them, not months down the road. Communication isnt as hard as it seems. I believe in solutions not problems. I also play bass guitar in a blues band and am 420 friendly.

First dates are easy. They shouldn't be nerve racking. I don't like the idea of pressure on either side. If we made it to an actual date then Im sure if the sparks dont set off, then we could atleast stay freinds.