Really now, if you’re reading this hopefully you do not consider yourself to be boring. C’mon now.

In the brief time I have been on this site I have noticed the following:

I must say up front that if in the first few lines (or anywhere for that matter) of your profile you have the following:

- ATV
- 4-wheeler
- Dirt bike
- Fishing
- Hunting
- Etc, etc, you get the idea

….…and you are a woman that listed these things as your FAVORITE things to do then the chances that we will hit it off are pretty much non-existent. On the other hand, if you have the things listed in an effort to get men to like you more as a result of ‘listing’ these activities and you don't like them then you should really be ashamed of yourself for ‘stooping’ to that level...haha. I always thought it was us (guys) that were suppose to convey being interested in things that we are really not interested in to gain favor/attention from you. Not that I have anything against participating in these activities, and I do actually enjoy them at times, it’s just that they are not part of my life on a regular basis (read as: City Boy).

Yes, I know that you like the Saints, LSU, MSU, Bama and the Biloxi or Gulfport High football teams (or your local version depending on what ‘set’ your claiming) OR anything that involves a ball and men (or young men in the case of the high school dudes) and using said ‘ball’ to score more points than the other team. I’m totally down with that though, as it is hard for a woman to complain about a guy watching the game and drinking beer if she is watching it with him and doing the same. I guess around here it would be better to say that you are NOT into football and do NOT think that the Saints are the greatest team EVER if you want to separate yourself from the pack. Also, there is no need to remind me that they are 11-0 as of this writing (11-5-09), as I also have a TV with cable and a radio...LOL. There may be one of you within a 300 mile radius that does not like the Saints, or really care either way, but I understand you do not want to speak out for fear of being put to death.

Also, it’s a given that every single woman on here wants a “nice guy”, “real man”, “perfect gentlemen”, “prince charming”, “knight in shining armor”, etc. No need to say it – we all understand! Although, it would be hilarious if someone listed that they wanted all the attributes that generally make men repulsive to women though.

Lastly - Drama Free is a pretty big plus....I mean necessity for me. If you are still hung up on your ex, that is fine, but please do not contact me unless you just want to say hi. Literally, just hi (hello is an acceptable substitute too) and nothing else. Okay, maybe I am exaggerating a bit, but you get the point. One clue as to whether or not you are is if you have a profile picture that is obviously cut in half, but there is the ever so slight presence of what is obviously a man’s arm, head or face. Just an observation that I have made, but I could be wrong. Either way it’s funny though.

Okay, that’s all out of the way now.

Really though, here it is:

For her (or you) - Fun, hard-working (but not too serious), responsible and knows what she wants out of life (such a cliche'). Also, I really like it when a woman takes care of herself. Not just her looks, but her health and the way she dresses and carries herself. Basically have enough self-respect to do the best with what ya got and expect the same of a man.

Me – Ambitious, hard-working, funny (very funny actually, or so I've been told) and looking for someone to hang out with and see what happens. I enjoy doing just about anything (get your mind out of the gutter) as long as the company is good. Okay, tired of typing and I am not big into talking about myself (at least online), so if you want to know something, just ask. Chances are you will be glad that you did...LOL.

Something casual. Maybe just a few drinks or something - unless you are a lush and then you can have as many as you want, but you're paying...;-)