Hello & thanks for reading. Get comfortable, my muse is what it is... :D)

Apparently, less is more in this box. Too bad. Figure I’ll address recurring comments. After all, I’m a writer.

Why am I here? I suppose it boils down to finding one new best man friend to share all those magical couple things that we both miss, or never got around to yet. We both feel comfortable with the idea of being together, sharing new and familiar activities, eagerly invent good times, and somehow ordinary moments become extraordinary memories. With you in my life, I’m in yours, with quirky little surprises. Trust me. We believe, to thine own self be true. We mean it when we say, "This is fun! I want to see you again."

Am a simple homebody, prone to cabin fever. Well, I am. :) Fresh air, a healthy lifestyle, independence and compromise are very important to me. I value intimacy and mutual respect for being mentally, emotionally and physically available. It ain’t easy being all things to all people, so let’s cut each other some slack and go with the flow (family and friends) when reality checks in. Hopefully, you appreciate the sunrise, seasons, slapshots, saffron on salad and the priceless faux pas we’re all good for.

My eyes change from blue to green.

I’m size medium. I swim year round.

I like to hold hands and arm wrestle, win or lose. Best 2 out of 3?

I’m better with landmark directions than names. Always have been. Now, who moved that old barn?

How did I get here? Came here, coaxed by my sistahood who would like nothing more than to (live vicariously) see me in a ‘meaningful’ relationship. Easier said than done. They love the updates and I appreciate their random advice. Gives us something to laugh about in emails - ourselves. Girl thing. Not a cougar, boys. Not ready for your retirement, Gramps. Not into group sex. Not here to fix your fibre. Long story, short: mutually, happily separated, in year 2 as a single parent and free most weekends for dating.

YES, I'm open to your children, if you have any. I have 3: 23, 20, 17 and who also want to see me 'hook up'. Talk about more pressure...on you...heehee...

Okay, hello, no, not me on google.

Favourite sound...my daughter's laugh. When I’m really stuck, soundtracks.

Best vacation, logging 600 nautical hours in the Virgin Islands with friends, twice.

My cup runneth over in me-time, always something. Currently juggling business systems courses, natural nutrition clients, chauffeuring, renos, looming divorce and a new IT job. Hopefully, you have your own hobbies for me to ew and awe over.

Shopping? Not a priority or pastime. More of an evil, necessary chore, lol always has been.

The family dog lives with my ex and sons, 2 blocks away.

Have a diverse passport...hmm, world views, now there's something to talk about while we get better acquainted and subconsciously assess where we fit in the grand scheme of things. (apart or together)

My dream boat, is well preserved, edgy and built to last, date after date after date. (works hard, plays hard)

Message me if your inner child gets mine, and you can be hooked, around the lives we live. Long term (so it seems) is a long way off - not in a rush.

Dang, 9 weeks and counting on here.

Moi? A nut in a shell. hahaha good one...and guys, forget the feet thing, I'm way too ticklish. And thanks for ranking me in the “2nd dumbest gender”. ;)

Nothing personal when I delete favs, just prefer not to be time-stamped. Also, I rarely respond to messages in knee-jerk fashion.

Ahhhhh soooooo, swears cause blocks. oops... and accidently made contact with one of those Other Relationship fish (good grief more blocks)

Of course there is still the draw of quick wit that keeps me surfing for a chuckle or insight to your astrological sign. Not much to work with, with the short versions. You write it, I read it. MO is trying to figure out the male psyche and the dating rules in this day and age. You’re all very charming. Madonna’s Like a Virgin comes to mind, lol, fast-tracking to Lady Gaga’s Bad Romance...

Heart-felt blessings to the fellow fun-seekers who are here to chill and let live. I hope we all find the love & companionship we're missing.

Life is not short. It's the longest, single experience we have. :D)

“Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies.” - Aristotle

Namaste (from the higher being in me, to the higher being in you)

no clue anymore, am stuck on the meet and greets...taking a break...A flower is always nice to go with the little black dress, or for jeans day. Wet our whistle, play 20 questions in a public place...perhaps plan some physical activity for a first date, and not that silly. LMHO!