Hello my name is Elijah, I am a 33 yr old white male that has never been married I was with an hispanic woman for 8 yrs and just never worked out. I want to be married I want that piece of paper that say's Mr and Mrs Bailey when the time is right of course. Please dont let the uniform scare you away, under the uniform I am human and can treat you the way you want to be treated but you have to be willing to take chances. I am full Irish, my parents were born in Dublin Ireland. I am 5"9 160lbs. I have blu eyes and tattoo's and 2 piercings. I like all kinds of music country, alternative rock, hip-hop, r&b, club music. I enjoy just hanging out on my days off and just doing whatever I feel like doing. I do work the night shifts so sorry Ladies I cant cuddle until my days off. I am very blunt and have a strong personality, this attitude and my ways are due to the fact that I lost my parents in an automobile accident when I was 19yrs old so yeah I have learned life the hard way. I am very opinionated, and do like to be challenged. I am an open book waiting for the right person who wants to read it. I speak my mind. I Would like to find someone who has a good head on there shoulders, confident, and knows what they want in life. I am a multi-housing officer and work throughout the valley in drug housing areas. I do have 2 kids that live in Texas and they are my world. I dont see them much cause of my schedule, but I am a dad and if you have kids to me thats a plus. I understand it cant be fun and games all the time but I need to know that someone is willing to give 100% and not play mind games. I am very independent and dont need a clingy woman that has to have a man around all the time. I do enjoy cuddling and can communicate when times are hard.

Whatever sounds fun that the other person would like to do. Soccer playng at the park, movies, dinner, go-cart racing, country dancing, sandbar, westgate shout house, vegas trips, sports bars, or just hang out. I am not picky on where to go.