O.K. you ask, what is it? I believe it to be the combination of two equations. The first is Honesty + Truth. The second is Communication + Understanding = Cooperation. This is something that goes both ways. I suspect if two people are compatible that they can overcome any problem with the above information and acting upon it.

So what brings someone like myself to this site? I'm a creative person who is quite busy. I hate to use that cliche, but its true. I don't want to pick up a girl from a club. I never really have even though I have worked in them for quite some time. Its against some kind of unexplainable code. I'm looking for something that works. And while I might find something that does work from the clubs, it might be pretty hard to find. Let me explain. I don't mind people who go to clubs. Thats fine. But when you meet someone at a club you see them with their "Game Face" on and a lot of people have a hard time transitioning from that person you meet at the club and who they really are. So I rather meet them outside of the club. Its an odd conflict.

Really, what I'm looking for is someone that is fun and into discovering new things, being creative or at least being around someone who is creative and into a lot of stuff that you won't find in the mainstream. Of course, now with the internet and the global culture that surrounds us, what is mainstream other than corporations trying to keep a profit going?

Race is unimportant to me. I've dated girls from Bangladesh, Egypt, Singapore and other places including Caucasians. I am white and American. However I really don't see races outside of the human race. I'm color blind I guess you could say.

Theres a lot left to live and experience. I'm 40 and I plan on having another and even more so productive life in the next 40. I want to share that experience and have it be enriched and added to by a women who thinks the same way.

I've done a lot already. I've been on TV, in some indie films, on radio. I've been published in magazines, newspapers, comics, online and even one book with more to come. I design other peoples CD's, DVD's and other products while engaging in a lot of other activities. Its a lot of fun but without someone to share the inside joke, the nod to the side, to value the opinion of and to share in the experience and to experience what only two people in love can privately.

If this is of interest to you, lets continue the conversation. Write me...please refer what I have written or I will take it for spam (sorry).