Looking to stand out like a black toilet at a plumbers convention!!

How people treat you is their personality; How you respond is YOURS!

I'll be honest here... I never imagined I would be searching online for "The One". I thought by now my love life would be something I would already have But, it's ok, they say: 'Good things come to those who wait'.

I"m looking for a man to spend time with and get to know eachother...
Share interests..enjoy eachothers company..
Have fun..Laugh...Be Happy together...and in time hopefully things will grow into something longterm and solid..

I come from a big Italian family...and its never a dull moment..but its always fun..I'm a passionate woman who is a romantic at heart..and would love to find someone like myself who enjoys being a couple...
A man who finds the little things in life important..like a phone call during the day just to say hi and hows your day going..or a text here and there to let eachother know your thinking about eachother...I"m easy going and wear my heart on my sleeve(so I've been told)
I don't need big fancy things...or to be wined and dined..I tend to keep a small, close circle of friends who have seen me through thick and thin.
I"m very happy being around family and friends and just enjoying company..and just hanging out togther relaxing..I like Pubs..not Clubs...Love Pizza & Wings..and a nice cold Blue Moon Beer..
I love to dance and just unwind..a few drinks and some good music and I am on the dance floor...to me its enjoyable...
The things that I find MOST important in life are the simple things that many people take for granted: good friends, good food, good health and a house filled with laughter.
Musically I prefer the sounds of a live band, but will listen to almost anything. I gravitate to the sounds of Springsteen,Luther Vandross,Billy Joel and top 40's. Favorite Band..Dave Matthews Band..Favorite Movies..Anything with Al Pacino..Favorite Feeling..being held as I fall asleep..and falling asleep at the beach in the late afternoon..(The BEST)...
I am more of a homebody rather than a party animal.I have a home in Freehold and I'm always trying little DIY projects. This doesn't mean I just like to stay home..I love to be doing things and usually going till I drop sometimes..it just means I'm not into the "bar scene".

Robert Brault may have summed it up best for the way I look at life today. He said:
"Enjoy the little things, for one day you may look back and realize they were the big things".

I LOVE Portuguese food & RED Sangeria..haha... and enjoy going to some of the local places for it...Ria Mar,Portuguese Manor,Costa Verde..BUT my favorite is Fourno's in Newark..OMG>>the BEST!!

I enjoy being around friends just having fun attending an event or concert or anything for that matter...also enjoy being alone with someone spending quiet time together..I adapt well in most situations and I"m very easy going..my friends tell me I'm fun to be with and I always make them laugh..
I love to cook and try new recipes and my favorite store in the world in Wegmans..(love it..haha)

Time has shown me that forgiveness is divine. And I’ve learned that the A list is most important to ANY successful relationship: Affection & Attention. Without them…we are nothing.
Sometimes we all need to be reminded that tomorrow is not promised to anyone.

I only work to live ...I don't live to work because LIFE is way too SHORT!!
Divorced for 10(TEN) years now...time sure is a flyin'..My kids are grown all over 18

Some of the things I enjoy are... Morning Coffee, Nights at the Boardwalk,Football Sunday-GO J*E*T*S!!!!, GO M*E*T*S!!! Snow in the winter..love Maine,Vermont,(don't ski)BUT love being up there..its the BEST!!Also LOVE the Beach and the warm weather as well....Wine Tasting,Jazz Music,Dancing at the Tiki Bar to the Soul Cruisers during the summer ,Sunday Paper..(love the flyers..LOL).Hanging out around my Fire Pit,Bowling, Miniture Golf, Spending time with my Daughters who are all grown, Cooking-The BEST cook EVER!!Love cooking together, Sushi,Dvd nights w/ Take Out Food just cuddling on the couch,Blue Moon Beer with a orange ,American Candle Store in P.A.(my Favorite Store!!), Party Boats Fishing.....LOVE TO FISH>>>LOVE being outside when the weather is nice doing just about anything...Family parties,BBQ's,Day trips to anywhere,I enjoy taking drives as a couple to nowhere special,bed and breakfast places,NYC for the day,finding cozy little cafes or resturants,motorcycle rides(but don't like to go too fast),enjoy Vegas,Cape May,Long Beach Island,Believe it or not Brooklyn by the water, weekeends away,Love the water and the beach..etc.

I want my "best friend"...I also believe that not many people really know what that means..a best friend is someone you can talk to and share anything with..good and bad..a best friend or any friend for that matter is someone who doesn't judge you or try to change you..and excepts you for who you are...the REAL you...

Someone who can be themselves..and laugh at themselves and eachother without taking everything so seriously...but knows when the time is right to be serious ..a man who is affectionate and doesn't shy away from PDA's..

SEX IS NOT THE ANSWER. SEX IS THE QUESTION. 'YES' IS THE ANSWER!

I am also looking for someone that will appreciate all the love I have to give...and will give it back to me as well..I would do anything for the right person..and I believe in being a couple and looking after eachother..taking care of eachother..isn't that what its all about.. Been on and off a few sites for years now, seen and heard it all...very frustrating. Trying POF this time (cause it's FREE), yes I am CHEAP, but not EASY or is it EASY, just not CHEAP! LOL

Thanks and good luck to all in your search..
Life's a dance...You learn as you go...

"You come to love not by finding the perfect person but by seeing an imperfect person perfectly "

P.S. I would rather be on a boat or at the beach or in the snow up in maine or vermont..than in a bar...

For all the scorn lovers out there: Never go to bed angry...Stay up and plot your revenage!!!!..hahaha

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Whatever we both decide...Lets face it..The "1st Date" really isn't any date at all..its a MEETING..where we see if your pictures are really YOU and if mine are really ME..then if everyone is happy and Truthful(and not showing crap from 10 years ago)..THEN the next meeting is the REAL 1ST DATE!..and then this is what I would lean towards..but of course its also what you would like as well...I guess I'm alittle easy going with this.....talking and laughing and getting to know eachother...I really enjoy BYOB places..to me they are cozy..also like 1/2 price Pizza & Wings at the Cabin on Monday nights..its crowed but alot of fun!! OR if you really want to win me over..PORTUGUESE food!! I"m yours for life..haha