ME: I’m what you’d call and easy going, yet out going kinda guy. I help run a computer corporation by day as well as have fun following several personal dreams of mine because I believe we all have many things inside of us that we can do – just as long as we put the time into seeing them come true! I believe it’s important to follow your passion – for when we do we’re always happier and feel more fulfilled in our life! I’m an optimist without being obnoxious about it… cynicism very rarely flows from my mouth. I was raised as a gentleman and enjoy being a bit old fashioned. I often times feel out of place here in L.A. even though I was raised here. I very much enjoy going out, and I’m very social. However I’m not into the party scene and to me curling up with a good movie can be just as exciting as a night out on the town. I keep myself fit and with luck, good karma, and good genes I can pass for well under my age. (and yes my pictures are current) On the weekends sometimes I enjoy going hiking. The beach, or hitting some of the Farmers Markets… or sometimes it’s all about just sleeping in and laying low. I enjoy volunteering my time for those who are in need. And no I’m not just saying that… I have a deep level of compassion for those who have far less than most… and in this town one doesn’t need to look far to see who these people are. I’m silly as hell – I grew up watching old Looney Tunes and classic movies, so be ready I can do some mean impressions. I’ll always keep you laughing…. (hopefully) as laughter is so, so important! I’ve traveled to Europe and Asia many times… and I truly enjoy seeing and exploring the world around me. I’ve invested my time over the years to get to know ME via reading, self discovery, meditation, listening and valuing the art of never getting too comfortable with myself. Growing and pushing past self imposed limitations is something I value and work toward everyday. I’m a spiritual person (not religious) and I truly believe what you put out is what you get back! And the universe is amazing place… if you choose to listen… you can hear it talking to you! In the music department I’m all over the place really…. Billie Holiday to Bowie to 80’s music, jazz… Johnny Cash, Zep, Radiohead etc…. I think you get the point! I’m someone who isn’t “needy” and enjoys giving others their space as I too enjoy it! However this isn’t to say I’m aloof, nor unavailable. Rather I’m very available… and very much desiring to connect on a deep level with another soul who wants to share all of the silliness and craziness of any given day. On a side note I hope to God I’m not coming across as uptight… because I’m really not… I don’t take myself too seriously. And I’ll be the first person I know to laugh at myself if I do! Finally (assuming you’re still reading) I’m a nice guy with an edge… and just what does that mean? Well, lets just say my dad was from N.Y. and my mother was from O.K. and they each had their influence on me! In a good way!

YOU: You’re kind and sincere and value laughter and fun. You enjoy conversation of substance and depth… but can be silly as well. You enjoy being both a girl and a lady because you know the duality lives inside of you and needs to come out at certain times. You aren’t afraid to express what you feel inside regardless of what it is! You like being treated with love and affection and enjoy expressing the same in your own way.

We all know it’s not the “bio” you write – but the feeling you get when you’re together – that indescribable thing called “connections” that just happens! Maybe that’s you and me! Maybe not. Regardless I wish you all the best in your search! Keep your faith!

I don't like to think about meeting someone for the first time as a "date" rather I'd like to think of it as a casual meeting where two people get together and just talk... get to know each other... and see how things go... with no stress or silly expectations.... life is stressful enough... meeting for coffee shouldn't be... does this make sense?