About Me I do understand about the meet and great face to face thing... chemistry attraction, and compatibility, is important, plus there's weirdow's out there, ( ... Ah but I?,,,, a mellow well seasoned gent, classy world traveled and culturally versed). A people person no doubt, full of love and life and yes, still in the persuit of happiness and a healthy long term friendship/loveship, aren't we all?. Although it's challenging to go it all alone, its definatelty not my 1st choice or favorite cup of chai?, (Far more a coffee guy than tea, and do like my chai from time to time) And here's my fish list, enjoy,

I am a nice NORMAL for the most part, calm cool and collected Gentleman,
on this site to win the heart of a lady long in waiting,
have traveled to Europe, Asia, the Orient, and lived in 8 states,
a creative artist colorful personality mixed with manners,
don't do hesitant or shady or flaky women, bring it all to the table, or stay hm
know who i am, what i believe in, and my limitations,
know exactly what i am lookin for in a woman, (and what im not)
know and can identify the qualities i am compatible with,
don't do games, cats, cigaretts, snakes, or instability,
Hate mean people, (Thats why im always Mr NICE GUY)
hate dumb drivers,, they need to all be shipped to a little island on mars.
am weary of crazy people,,, note them and watch them.....
Hate brussel sprouts, and dog pooo on the side walk,, avoid it!
POO ON MY SHOO IS NOT COO..
i avoid prejudice people,,
love.... sunsets, coffee, great conversation, and great _ _ _ .
love Chineeeeeese food
love nice friendly people
love socializing with interesting positive successful like minded people.
love sleeping,, and waking up!
love Peeing out in the wilderness....its a Marine thing....no worries.
love clean laundered sheets,,
love a clean house, yeah im a neat freak sorry....any way hit me up....
And I am a quarter puertrican, black, irish and chineese.... HELLO!!!!!

First Date Creativity from two minds with merging interests will birth the perfect mutual setting and atmosphere, for that special moment.
And for the rest of what im about .... well, Speaking soft, and lovely things in your ear, opening your doors, pulling out your chairs, running your bath water, messaging your feet,(and back), combing your hair, treating you like royalty, complimenting your beauty, and all you do, listening to what you say, and whats on your mind. (thats important, most guys dont get that), being patient while you shop, looking at dresses and shoes and Vicky secrets with you, not rushing you while you get ready before we go out, and just plain being nice, sweet, and considerate.. let me know if we can talk.... Dezi.. thanks