I have been married twice and have four beautiful children who all live in NH. I do not want, nor can I have anymore children (so if thats what your looking for, I am not for you). I am looking for someone to spend time with that can understand that my job can be very demanding on my time sometimes and not demanding at all at others. I am career military and will have to move from here between 4-8 years from now. I consider myself a strong person, caring as well. I am patient, but will not stand for the "game" type of person. Ideally, I am looking for someone that just feels right, someone who I enjoy spending time with, no matter what we are doing (when it's right, it just is). It's not what we do, but who I am doing it with, everything can be exciting and intimate. I want to find someone that makes every moment together amazing, that always makes me feel proud to be beside her. Tall order, I know. But I know it's out there, somewhere. I work hard, but enjoy relaxing at the beach or pool when I can. I love to cook, especially with someone who wants to cook together. I love to spend time outside enjoying the beauty of nature. If a woman doesn't like all these things, it doesn't really matter. All that matters is the spark. I want to be with someone that brightens my day and touches my heart just by walking in the room and looking at me. I've been there before, so i know it's possible. I truly believe that if you can answer the question "why do you love me?" with definitive answers, then you are not truly "in love". True love just happens, and you can't stop it, or make it happen for that matter.

Honestly, I don't think a first date should be too fancy. I think you know right off the bat if you are compatible, but that takes conversation and ease of being. The first date should be low key and comfortable. I don't want someone to try to impress me by showing me what they think I want to see. I want them to impress me just by being who they really are.