I AM A CHALLENGE!!!! It is not easy to win me over & it will take more than a few conversations to really get to know me. Not just another pretty face, I am educated and intelligent, very particular, and meticulous.

I work and study hard, and when I'm not doing either of the two I spend my time at home with my family. The type of person who doesn't tolerate sh*t from anybody and I don't hold my tongue often. My Momma always told me if I didn't have something nice to say, not to say anything at all.... I wish I could say I follow that. However, most of the time I find it quite difficult! I will always be completely straight forward, completely honest and at times, very blunt! I could care less about what people think of me or how they perceive me. I am going to be myself regardless. I'm far from perfect and I like it that way! Tattooed, pierced and beautiful!

Music is my life & I cannot live without my blackberry. It never leaves my side, I would be completely lost without it! Addicted to shoes & Sex in the City, really they come hand-in-hand.

I have a name, its Vanessa. Try using it. Calling me baby, babe, cutie or anything along those lines will completely turn me off and I won't waste my time messaging you back!

If your idea of a good first date is trying to get me into your bed, please fall back, I am not interested.