I'm a big believer that you have to meet face to face to find out if there's mutual physical, mental, emotional and spiritual chemistry. So you'll probably notice a certain degree of frivolity in my messages because we both know that until we actually communicate back and forth, it's all just for fun, so I keep it light. Bring the joy. Bring it. You know you want to.

I approach internet dating this way because I try to embrace Eckhart Tolle's well stated idea about the Power of Now. Anything I write in this profile is a story about me that isn't necessarily accurate or even useful. Anything you derive from it is just a guess, a fantasy. The only thing that actually exists between two people in a relationship is in the present moment when they are interacting. That's it. So unless we communicate, it doesn't matter what either of us says in our profiles.