No matter what may be written below my quest is love not only for me but her, for love can not exist without two hearts being together as one...

I have had in my life the privilege of knowing pure love and the joy it brings..is it possible again??

So please read on, but keep in mind what really matters most...love..

I am a very positve person, happy 90% of the time and my outlook is always up. And desire a woman that smiles often and cares for those around her. And most importantly her ownself.. Know it's been journey for all of us to get here and we all are wanting a heart to not only share and care for but also to find someone that desires the same in return.. Love is for two who want to be one...

Seems that most of the women I meet, even though they are attractive, are to old for me attitude wise, not age. A lot of my tastes lean towards more a style that is not matched by my age.

For example, music wise I tend to listen to and enjoy alternative music. Such as Evanescence, Amy Winehouse, Greenday, The Killers and White Stripes and WaY more. It is not to say I don't enjoy the other music such as Fleetwood Mac, Matchbook 20, Beatles, Three Doors Down, Sarah McLachlan, Frank Sinatra, Fiona Apple and classical. I am a music person, also love nice Jazz, new and old Blues...hmm just easier to say music...So it tends to be very difficult to find a woman that leans in that direction. A lot are set on music from the 70's, 80's. Please don't take that wrong I listen to most styles of music, just enjoy all that comes on to the scene...best word is expansive...

I also LoVe to cook. I would enjoy finding someone that enjoys good foods and has tastes that are not limited to just a few foods. I am pretty good cook, just would be a lot more fun to share the cooking. Sure great watching the food channel and getting recipes from them, just a heck of a lot better, fun and sometimes scary making up your own. Two creative minds are better than one. Yes sometimes you make it and you say.."Oh My god never again!!" Isn't that half the fun of being creative?

And the conversation of each others day and what each is thinking and feeling is paramount to us getting to know one another every day. Sharing everything, without concern to share openly and speak honestly.

Have a love also for good and fine wine. I tend to lean towards reds, though not limited to that. As a lot of foods just don't go with red wines. Have more than a few bottles of some nice ones, just need to find the right one to share and enjoy with.

One of the things I would love to share is going for drives by pointing the car in a random direction and ending up somewhere, wine tasting, eating out at small out of the way places or picnics. It is the company that counts not always the destnation.

And one of the main reasons I am here is something I have really not seen or spoken about much, implied yes...spoken of rarely. Being able to find someone to share time together, holding hands, kissing, understanding each others heart through conversation, words written and anyway possible, to become beyond close, knowing how the other will finish a sentence and when the phone rings answer.."Hi honey I was just thinking of you too" Barely able to wait to see them once again for the joy they bring to your heart...Love..

The main thing it all comes down to is openess, being able to be yourself as much you want the other to be also...care for the other..respect.

Hmm..Well this would NOT really be a FIRST date this would be to meet for some tea/coffee, perhaps a nice glass of wine, conversation.... Something we both find nice and makes each at ease.. Though what really counts is just taking time to see who each of us are in person..simple...

FIRST DATE!!! A first date would be something that would be more romantic..Dinner, nice atmosphere..perhaps even a small day trip to The City, maybe to Tahoe for a drive around the lake stopping for a picnic...it could be many things we both smile during and afterwards about and enjoy, an easy time spent together..;)