but knowing what Mensa is bodes well for you. I'm newly separated from my husband, soon to be divorced. We've parted ways on friendly terms. I have three beautiful children to whom I'm totally devoted. My hubby and I were together for 16 years so I haven't dated since...gulp...1993...I can't imagine it's changed all that much (haha). I'm just sort of dipping my toes in the pool so to speak...not looking for anything serious. I a single hardworking mom...my kids are my priority right now. I do have every other weekend free and I love to do things spur of the moment. I'm a Pisces and though I usually don't believe in that crap I do fit the profile. I'm a contradiction in terms...I'm easygoing but sometimes not, I'm spontaneous but I like to have a plan...etc. What I'm looking for is someone smart (If I can use big words and not get a blank look, awesome!) and funny!! Love the funny! I have a wicked sense of humor so someone who isn't uptight or easily offended will mesh well with me. I'm a big reader, enjoy new places, movies, bowling, playing pool, museums and more. I love the holidays- I'm a total geek from Halloween until Christmas. Pretty independent and low maintenance. Honesty, integrity and compassion are essential qualities I look for in a man.

My first date would ideally be dinner and a movie. Nice and casual, give you a chance to see if there is any chemistry and if not to bow out gracefully! I know that's cliched but did I mention I haven't dated in 16 years?