For the last 2 years I have been in and out of relationships, unable to find the one person I would like to spend the rest of my life with. I'm not looking to casually date. It's okay if you have children so long as having another one is in your future. But please be under 42 years old.

I have always lived in Southern California (born and raised here) and I plan to retire here in San Diego. My family lives close by and I am very close to them. I am Chinese and Caucasian mixed, and as such, as well as being a native Californian, I am very Americanized. In other words, if you have "yellow fever" I am not your type. I have a great career, am independent, have a pretty strong personality, and own my own home.

I am still a beginner West Coast Swing dancer, but looking for people to go dancing with. However, if you don't like dancing, that's ok, I have other interests. I also like spending time with someone special and experiencing their interests.

turnoffs: drugs, even 420, excessive alcohol, smoking, and chewing tobacco.

3pm coffee date, and if we hit it off, dinner afterwards at a quiet place that we are still able to talk and get to know each other. Or a morning coffee date is nice.