I'm pretty analytical, but not garrulous about it. not in person, anyway. letters are a different story, but you'll only get them if you truly inspire me. i can't do small talk, or at least i can't initiate it and/or keep it up for long. i CAN find almost anything funny, and point it out.

I'm INTP or INTJ, i like philosophy and language systems, i write poetry when the muse hits. i like linear thinkers who offset/complement my coherentism. i like artists or anyone with strong aesthetic sensitivity or an intense hunger for the sublime. people who are not inhibited in their love, and can't settle for less from others. people who can feel themselves growing, and don't run from the pain of it. you know. strong smart intense people who are funny. and yes, i totally deserve it.

i don't take well to casual dating, rotations, polyamory, open relationships etc.. If i don't like you enough to want you all to myself, then really what's the point? i'm not looking for false premature commitment though... if i fell for you i'd probably ask for a 'monogamy testdrive' somewhere before the 3 month mark. if not, i'd cut you loose. i'm an all or nothing kind of girl. so, take heed. i'm not for the timid.

Also, regular old sex really doesn't do it for me. I require a kinky, creative, dominant lover (if you think you fit the bill, email and provide/ask for specifics.) i do best with people who have intellectual stamina and provide a lot of physical affection. i despise and am intolerant of dishonesty, in all its degrees and forms and despite its situational excuses. i like cooking/eating food as a dating activity, but would get bored with an actual homebody. lately i've been going out dancing to electronica like a teenager.

there are no types of dates i'd rule out. i've had normal, weird, too-spontaneous, slightly dangerous, domesticated, pornographic, delicious, ironic, and plain stupid first dates. it doesn't matter.