Hi! So here you are ready to find out the deal:

??I'm athletic, petite, smart, sexy, funny, honest and pretty in an exotic way. I'm very direct yet diplomatic. I'm a nature girl that works in a business environment. I'm a free spirit with a brain. I can dress up and go out on the town, whether for fine food and wine, or hitting the sports bar to shoot pool and hang out. I love live music, mostly indie stuff but enjoy the opera or blues or anything interesting really. I cook mostly vegetarian but I have nothing against carnivores and will share a good steak with you on occasion. I love dessert...read into it what you will.

I'm pretty ambitious, always wanting to reach for another level of being, although when people ask me what I do for a living, I usually just say "as little as possible." I'm a believer in balance and stress free living.

I'm looking to date, have fun, and hang out with someone that I feel good being around without any drama. I like guys who are HOT (whatever that means--attraction is subjective right?) smart, sexy, happy don't sweat the small stuff types, physically fit and have active lifestyles (ie play sports or work out and are sociable.) I'm 41 years old (not lying, no need to) and like guys my age or younger. I'm probably a little smaller than 5 feet tall maybe 4'11"; they say you shrink as you get older (so maybe you guys over 5'10" wouldn't be the best in the long run), but honestly if you ask any of my friends they will tell you that it seems like I'm 5'11". I exude tall.

See you later?

I'd probably just like to meet for coffee or a drink first because this is an online adventure, but for the offline adventure, maybe something like ice skating or a carnival or a sports bar, something interactive; i appreciate creativity.