I'm a very outgoing, funny, intelligent and confident guy who likes to spend time with friends and family, doing most anything outside, cooking, building or fixing something, or eating out. I love the shore (LBI especially) and all things to do with the water. I love music and play guitar and some piano. I'm interested in just about everything. I'm a voracious reader, but not a bookworm. I have two kids who are grown and living on their own, but a very important part of my life. I'm looking to meet someone to have dinner with or watch a movie or see a concert and see what happens from there. I'd like to meet someone who will be my partner in life's ups and downs. Someone who speaks her mind and is generally happy in life. I'm very active and love kids and animals. I ride horses, motorcycles, and stand up jet skis. I ski and roller skate. I open doors for my date (and strangers too), and I won't embarrass her while eating out or with her family and friends. Contact me if you feel like we're a match.

My handle on this site has triple meaning: I'm handy and can fix just about anything, I play music, and I'm told that I give a pretty excellent massage.

Please also have a picture on your profile or include one in your email if you want to contact me. Good luck to everyone searching for the right connection.

Update 11-11-09: My divorce was final today. The "separated" thing is over!

Have drinks or coffee somewhere where we can talk and see if we like each other. We'll figure it out from there.